Monday, March 12, 2012

What to do?

Another military spouse sent me a comment asking for some advice on what to do while her man is away..

1.) Pray!
2.) Get into a routine. Even on the weekends. Wake up at a certain time and go to bed at a certain time.
3.) Stay busy.
  • Workout
  • Read
  • Blog
  • Have a girls night in/out once a week.
  • Plan a party. Link up for a game night or host a Pure Romance, Scentsy, or Mary Kay party.
  • Spend time with family.
  • Get a job.
  • Find a hobby.
  • Go back to school, take a class. Like yoga, spin, cooking. Something fun and new.
  • Go shopping but don't be rash. Make good purchases.
  • Make to do lists. And complete it.
4.) Stay strong.
5.) Stay motivated.

Just whatever you do just keep living. Don't stay at home. Go out to eat. He/she expects you to keep living your life just as you did with him/her. The time away is what you make of it. If you want to be negative, and feel sorry for youself you do that but nobody else is. He/she is doing their job. Just support them and be so proud that their yours and their doing a great thing for you and our country. Stay postive it makes the time go by faster. And just remember everyday away is a day closer until your in his/her arms again.

Live today, like he/she will be gone tomorrow.
Hope this helps. Love, Morgan



6 comments:

  1. wow Morgan that is very beautiful and I can't wait for David to get back to you for you and him :) Don't forget rule # 1 and that is to pray :) if you need a good talk you know I'm a call away :) Hope you have a wonderful week full of fun festivities :)

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  2. What great advice for any one in a military or long distance relationship! I'm so glad you shared this, Morgan!

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  3. such beautiful advice. You are a wise woman!

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  4. I wish blogspot had a like button : )

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  5. this is amazing advice. i have actually already talked to him & my mom about going back to school and pursuing an additional degree. i pray every day for both of us to have strength. thank you again.

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  6. great advice!! I will be here too if you need to just have a friend come over or need to get away. I get that! Deployments suck!!

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